Q: Is it ever too soon to say “I Love You” in a relationship?

People seem to fall in love very easily and fast these days. Personally, if you say you are in love with someone after being with them only a few days, that is a bit much. You are still getting to know the person, seeing what’s real and what’s game. Your mind is filled with possibilities and thoughts of ” this might be the one,” therefore, you fall in love with the “idea” of being in love. Give it some time. Never rush love, it only complicates things.

Q: I met this girl, and I like her a lot, how do I see if she feels the same way about me?

Let’s get one thing out in the open; most females today don’t like games. If you like her, and want to know her on a personal level, nothing beats the direct approach. I’m not saying stop her in the hall and shout ” I want to be with you” at the top of your lungs, but it doesn’t help to be shy either. I understand that it’s hard to be real about your feelings, anytime you do that you leave the chance to be hurt wide open, but, sometimes you have to push shyness and fear aside and go for what you want before you miss out.

Q: Why do women say they want a good man, and don’t know how to treat one when they get one?

In my personal opinion, if a women begs for a good man, and doesn’t know how to treat one when she gets one, she either doesn’t really know what she wants to begin with, or has the meaning of “good man” twisted. To some females a good man is a guy who will tell her he loves her and then take her car, and sleep with her best friend right after he punches her in her face a few times. I will admit, the females that don’t know what they want are ruining it for the females that do. On the other hand, females can also wonder why a man comes looking for a woman that has her things in order knowing that he is nowhere near having his life straight.

Q: I changed my major in the middle of my sophomore year, now things seems to be getting harder than before. Should I stick with it, or change back to my former major?

First thing you must decide is, did you change your major for the right reason to begin with? Did you change it because you found something you were more interested in or because the classes became to demanding and you wanted something that seemed easy? Next thing you must realize is that life puts stumbling blocks in your way for two reasons, to either make you work harder so you will enjoy it more once you reach your goal, or, to push you in the direction you need to be going. It depends on how you take it. Is this major something that drives you, a passion of yours, something that sparks an interest? If not then maybe you need to fill out another change of major form.

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