If you’re at loose ends for a Mother’s Day gift, why not treat her this year to an experience that is the epitome of class – afternoon tea. Around the world, afternoon tea provides a sophisticated, relaxing break from the day’s hectic pace.

Fortunately, you don’t have to take Mom to a pricey restaurant to experience afternoon tea. You can put one together in the comfort of your – or her – own home. Not only will Mom feel like the guest of honor (and she will be), she’ll appreciate the time and effort you put into making her day extra special.

Here’s the 411 on pulling together a classy afternoon tea:

The guest list – Make it meaningful for her. Does your mother love large affairs with all her extended family and friends around? Invite as many people as your home can hold. Or will she enjoy something more intimate, maybe even just you and her? Either way, make sure the tea is a total surprise, as that will add to the excitement of the event.

The decor – Whether you host your tea at home or in a restaurant, fresh flower arrangements can elevate the look and feel of your event. Online retailers like 1800Flowers.com have an array of fresh, seasonal arrangements that are appropriate for Mother’s Day. Choose a Mother’s Day favorite like carnations, or go with an arrangement that incorporates her favorite flowers. And when the tea is over, send the arrangement home with Mom as another way of saying “I love you.”

The menu – Afternoon tea fare should be delectable and dainty. Think finger sandwiches, pastries, cookies, cakes and scones with cream and jam. Serve food buffet style and be sure to provide seating in small, intimate groupings, especially if you’ll have a large number of guests.

The tea – Of course tea is the heart of every afternoon tea party, and yours should feature whatever tea is Mom’s favorite. Is she an Earl Grey gal? Perhaps she prefers herbal teas. Or, if your mother’s not a tea aficionado, consider adding iced tea or a selection of gourmet coffees to the menu.

With a bit of planning, some creativity and the right floral accents, you can create a relaxing afternoon tea that’s every bit as classy and special as Mom herself.